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Introduction

The distribution of the gay population in the United States varies significantly from state to state, reflecting the diverse landscape of acceptance and LGBTQ+ rights across the country. While certain states, such as Vermont, Massachusetts, and the District of Columbia have higher concentrations of same-sex couples per 1,000 households, others have lower numbers, often influenced by factors such as cultural attitudes, legal frameworks, and historical contexts. Urban areas tend to have more visible and thriving LGBTQ+ communities, while rural regions may present unique challenges for LGBTQ+ individuals. Despite the variations, the overall trend indicates a growing acceptance and visibility of the gay population, with progress being made in LGBTQ+ rights and inclusivity nationwide.

Gay Population in the US

#StateGay Couples per 1k HouseholdsNumber of Gay Couples% of Gay Couples Raising Children
1District of Columbia18.084,8228.7%
2Vermont8.362,14318.6%
3Massachusetts7.9520,25617.1%
4California7.898,15316%
5Oregon7.7511,77316.3%
6Delaware7.732,64615.6%
7New Mexico7.415,82517.8%
8Washington7.2619,00315.8%
9Nevada7.127,14017%
10Hawaii7.113,23915.8%
11Maine7.13,95813.8%
12Rhode Island6.732,78515.5%
13New York6.6948,93216.4%
14Arizona6.6415,81716.5%
15Florida6.5448,49613.3%
16Colorado6.3312,42415.9%
17New Hampshire6.283,26016.5%
18Georgia5.9521,31819.6%
19Maryland5.8112,53820.3%
20Connecticut5.727,85217%
21New Jersey5.2516,87519.7%
22Texas5.2246,40119.8%
23Minnesota510,20716.5%
24North Carolina4.8918,30918.5%
25Alaska4.781,22823.1%
26Illinois4.7723,04916.6%
27Louisiana4.688,07619.9%
28Virginia4.6614,24316%
29Missouri4.4910,56017.3%
30Utah4.483,90920.1%
31Pennsylvania4.4522,33615.9%
32Indiana4.4411,07418.9%
33Tennessee4.3810,89818.1%
34Ohio4.2919,68417.7%
35Oklahoma4.226,13420.9%
36Kentucky4.197,19518.5%
37Wisconsin4.049,17916.4%
38South Carolina4.017,21418.9%
39Michigan3.8114,59818.2%
40West Virginia3.782,84817.8%
41Arkansas3.754,22621.2%
42Kansas3.734,00921.8%
43Idaho3.612,04222.3%
44Iowa3.524,09318.6%
45Nebraska3.52,35619.6%
46Alabama3.496,58220.4%
47Montana3.481,34822%
48Wyoming3.1565724.7%
49Mississippi3.143,48425.7%
50South Dakota2.4171421.1%
51North Dakota2.2755921.6%

Gayest States

The ten states and districts with the most gays in the United States, based on the number of gay couples per 1,000 households, showcase a diverse range of LGBTQ+ communities and acceptance.

Topping the list is the District of Columbia, known for its vibrant LGBTQ+ scene, with 18.08 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, securing the first position in the . Vermont follows closely behind, ranking second with 8.36 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. Massachusetts claims the third spot with 7.95 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, while California secures the fourth position with 7.8 same-sex couples per 1,000 households.

Oregon ranks fifth with 7.75 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, followed by Delaware in sixth place with 7.73 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. New Mexico secures the seventh position with 7.41 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, while Washington ranks eighth with 7.26 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. Nevada claims the ninth spot with 7.12 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, and Hawaii rounds out the top ten with 7.11 same-sex couples per 1,000 households.

The ten gayest states and districts in the US, based on the number of gay couples per 1k households, are :

1. District of Columbia – 18.08
2. Vermont – 8.36
3. Massachusetts – 7.95
4. California – 7.8
5. Oregon – 7.75
6. Delaware – 7.73
7. New Mexico – 7.41
8. Washington – 7.26
9. Nevada – 7.12
10. Hawaii – 7.11

Gay Population by State

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3.49

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6,582

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20.4%

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Alabama secures the forty-sixth spot, with a gay population of 3.49 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has more conservative views on LGBTQ+ rights, but there are LGBTQ+ communities and organizations working towards greater acceptance.

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Alaska

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4.78

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#25

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1,228

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#48

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23.1%

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#3

Despite its remote location, Alaska ranks twenty-fifth with a gay population of 4.78 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state's natural beauty, close-knit communities, and increasing LGBTQ+ acceptance make it an appealing place for same-sex couples.

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Arizona

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6.64

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#14

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15,817

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16.5%

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#35

Arizona secures the fourteenth spot, with 6.64 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. While the state has had its share of political debates regarding LGBTQ+ rights, it still attracts a significant number of same-sex couples with its warm climate and diverse communities.

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Arkansas

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3.75

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#41

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4,226

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#33

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21.2%

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#8

Rounding out the list is Arkansas, with 3.75 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has more conservative views on LGBTQ+ rights, but there are LGBTQ+ communities and organizations working towards greater acceptance.

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California

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7.8

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#4

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98,153

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16%

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#41

California secures the fourth position with a gay population of 7.8 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. Its diverse population and LGBTQ+-friendly cities like San Francisco and West Hollywood have contributed to its reputation as an attractive destination for the gay community.

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Colorado

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6.33

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#16

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12,424

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#17

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15.9%

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#43

Colorado claims the sixteenth position with a gay population of 6.33 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state's stunning landscapes, progressive policies, and LGBTQ+-friendly cities like Denver and Boulder contribute to its appeal.

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Connecticut

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5.72

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#20

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7,852

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#25

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17%

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#32

Rounding out the top twenty is Connecticut, with a gay population of 5.72 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state's proximity to major metropolitan areas like New York City and its supportive LGBTQ+ legislation make it an appealing location for same-sex couples.

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Delaware

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7.73

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#6

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2,646

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#43

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15.6%

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#47

Ranking sixth is Delaware, with 7.73 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. Despite being a small state, Delaware has made significant strides in LGBTQ+ rights and provides a welcoming environment for same-sex couples.

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District of Columbia

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18.08

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4,822

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8.7%

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#51

Leading the list is the District of Columbia, with a concentration of 18.08 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The nation's capital has fostered a progressive environment and enacted legal protections for LGBTQ+ individuals, making it a hub for the gay population.

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Florida

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6.54

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#15

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48,496

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13.3%

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#50

Known for its vibrant LGBTQ+ scene in cities like Miami and Fort Lauderdale, Florida ranks fifteenth with 6.54 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state's tropical climate, entertainment options, and legal protections make it a popular destination for the gay community.

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Georgia

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5.95

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#18

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21,318

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#7

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19.6%

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#17

Georgia ranks eighteenth with a gay population of 5.95 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. While the state still faces challenges in terms of LGBTQ+ rights, metropolitan areas like Atlanta have vibrant gay communities and organizations.

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Hawaii

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7.11

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#10

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3,239

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#40

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15.8%

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#45

Rounding out the top ten is Hawaii, with 7.11 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state's natural beauty, inclusive culture, and legal protections for LGBTQ+ individuals make it a desirable destination for many same-sex couples.

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Idaho

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3.61

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#43

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2,042

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#46

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22.3%

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#4

With 3.61 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, Idaho secures the forty-third spot. The state has seen gradual progress in LGBTQ+ acceptance, and cities like Boise have supportive communities for same-sex couples.

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Illinois

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4.77

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#26

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23,049

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16.6%

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#34

Illinois claims the twenty-sixth spot, with 4.77 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has made significant progress in LGBTQ+ rights, particularly with the legalization of same-sex marriage in 2013.

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Indiana

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4.44

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#32

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11,074

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#19

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18.9%

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#19

With 4.44 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, Indiana secures the forty-second spot. The state has had ongoing discussions surrounding LGBTQ+ rights, but there are supportive communities and organizations for same-sex couples.

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Iowa

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3.52

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#44

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4,093

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#34

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18.6%

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#21

Iowa claims the forty-fourth position, with a gay population of 3.52 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has made significant progress in LGBTQ+ rights, particularly with the legalization of same-sex marriage in 2009.

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Kansas

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3.73

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#42

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4,009

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#35

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21.8%

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Kansas ranks forty-second with a gay population of 3.73 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. While the state has more conservative views on LGBTQ+ rights, there are supportive communities for same-sex couples.

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Kentucky

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4.19

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#36

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7,195

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#27

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18.5%

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#23

Kentucky claims the forty-sixth position, with a gay population of 4.19 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. While the state has conservative views on LGBTQ+ rights, there are supportive communities and organizations for same-sex couples.

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Louisiana

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4.68

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#27

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8,076

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#24

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19.9%

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#14

Louisiana ranks twenty-seventh with a gay population of 4.68 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. While the state has more conservative stances on LGBTQ+ issues, cities like New Orleans have thriving gay communities and events.

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Maine

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7.1

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#11

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3,958

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13.8%

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#49

Maine ranks eleventh with a gay population of 7.10 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state's commitment to equality and its picturesque landscapes have attracted a significant number of LGBTQ+ individuals and couples.

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Maryland

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5.81

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#19

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12,538

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#16

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20.3%

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#12

Maryland claims the nineteenth position, with 5.81 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has made significant progress in LGBTQ+ rights and is known for its diverse communities and inclusive policies.

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Massachusetts

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7.95

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#3

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20,256

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#8

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17.1%

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Massachusetts, renowned for its history of progressive movements, ranks third. With 7.95 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, the state has long been at the forefront of LGBTQ+ rights, legalizing same-sex marriage in 2004.

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Michigan

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3.81

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#39

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14,598

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18.2%

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#25

With 3.81 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, Michigan ranks forty-ninth. The state has made progress in LGBTQ+ rights, particularly in cities like Detroit and Ann Arbor, which have vibrant LGBTQ+ communities.

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Minnesota

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5

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#23

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10,207

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#22

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16.5%

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#36

Minnesota ranks twenty-third with a gay population of 5.00 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state's commitment to inclusivity, progressive policies, and supportive communities make it an attractive place for LGBTQ+ individuals and couples.

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Mississippi

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3.14

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#49

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3,484

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#38

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25.7%

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Mississippi ranks forty-ninth with 3.14 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has more conservative views on LGBTQ+ rights, but there are supportive communities for same-sex couples.

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Missouri

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4.49

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#29

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10,560

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#21

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17.3%

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Missouri claims the twenty-ninth spot, with a gay population of 4.49 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state's larger cities, such as St. Louis and Kansas City, have supportive LGBTQ+ communities and organizations.

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Montana

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3.48

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#47

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1,348

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#47

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22%

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#5

With 3.48 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, Montana ranks forty-seventh. The state has more conservative views on LGBTQ+ issues, but there are supportive communities for same-sex couples, particularly in cities like Missoula.

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Nebraska

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3.5

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#45

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2,356

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#44

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19.6%

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#18

Nebraska ranks forty-fifth with 3.50 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. While the state has more conservative views on LGBTQ+ issues, there are supportive communities and organizations for same-sex couples.

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Nevada

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7.12

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#9

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7,140

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#28

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17%

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#33

Nevada claims the ninth spot, with 7.12 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state's entertainment and tourism industry, particularly in cities like Las Vegas and Reno, has contributed to its inclusive atmosphere and attraction to same-sex couples.

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New Hampshire

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6.28

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#17

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3,260

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#39

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16.5%

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#37

With 6.28 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, New Hampshire secures the seventeenth spot. The state's commitment to equality and its scenic beauty make it an attractive place for LGBTQ+ individuals and couples.

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New Jersey

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5.25

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#21

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16,875

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#12

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19.7%

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#16

New Jersey ranks twenty-first with a gay population of 5.25 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has made significant strides in LGBTQ+ rights and offers a diverse and inclusive environment for same-sex couples.

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New Mexico

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7.41

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#7

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5,825

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#31

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17.8%

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New Mexico secures the seventh position, with 7.41 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state's rich cultural heritage, scenic beauty, and LGBTQ+-inclusive policies have contributed to its appeal among the gay population.

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New York

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6.69

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#13

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48,932

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16.4%

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#38

New York, a state known for its vibrant LGBTQ+ community and iconic Pride events, ranks thirteenth. With a gay population of 6.69 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, the state's diversity and inclusive policies contribute to its appeal.

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North Carolina

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4.89

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18,309

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18.5%

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#24

North Carolina secures the twenty-fourth position, with 4.89 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. While the state has faced controversy surrounding LGBTQ+ rights, there are vibrant gay communities in cities like Asheville and Durham.

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North Dakota

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2.27

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#51

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559

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21.6%

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Rounding out the list is North Dakota, with a gay population of 2.27 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has more conservative views on LGBTQ+ rights, but there are supportive communities for same-sex couples.

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Ohio

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4.29

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19,684

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17.7%

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Ohio ranks forty-fourth with 4.29 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has made progress in LGBTQ+ rights, and cities like Columbus and Cleveland have vibrant LGBTQ+ communities and events.

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Oklahoma

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4.22

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#35

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6,134

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#30

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20.9%

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#10

With 4.22 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, Oklahoma secures the forty-fifth spot. The state has seen gradual progress in LGBTQ+ acceptance, and cities like Tulsa have supportive communities for same-sex couples.

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Oregon

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7.75

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11,773

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16.3%

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Oregon claims the fifth spot, boasting a gay population of 7.75 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state's inclusive policies, thriving LGBTQ+ organizations, and vibrant gay communities in cities like Portland and Eugene have made it an appealing location for many.

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Pennsylvania

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4.45

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22,336

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#6

% of Gay Couples Raising Children

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15.9%

Ranked in the US

#44

Pennsylvania ranks forty-first with a gay population of 4.45 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has seen progress in LGBTQ+ rights, particularly in cities like Philadelphia, which has a vibrant gay community.

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Rhode Island

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6.73

Ranked in the US

#12

Number of Gay Couples

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2,785

Ranked in the US

#42

% of Gay Couples Raising Children

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15.5%

Ranked in the US

#48

Rhode Island secures the twelfth position, with 6.73 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. Despite being the smallest state in the country, Rhode Island has made significant progress in LGBTQ+ rights and offers a welcoming environment for same-sex couples.

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South Carolina

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4.01

Ranked in the US

#38

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7,214

Ranked in the US

#26

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18.9%

Ranked in the US

#20

South Carolina secures the forty-eighth spot, with a gay population of 4.01 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has more conservative views on LGBTQ+ issues, but there are supportive communities for same-sex couples.

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South Dakota

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2.41

Ranked in the US

#50

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714

Ranked in the US

#49

% of Gay Couples Raising Children

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21.1%

Ranked in the US

#9

With 2.41 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, South Dakota secures the fiftieth spot. The state has more conservative views on LGBTQ+ issues, but there are LGBTQ+ communities and organizations working towards greater acceptance.

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Tennessee

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4.38

Ranked in the US

#33

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10,898

Ranked in the US

#20

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18.1%

Ranked in the US

#26

Tennessee claims the forty-third position, with a gay population of 4.38 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. While the state has conservative views on LGBTQ+ issues, urban areas like Nashville have welcoming environments for same-sex couples.

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Texas

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5.22

Ranked in the US

#22

Number of Gay Couples

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46,401

Ranked in the US

#4

% of Gay Couples Raising Children

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19.8%

Ranked in the US

#15

With 5.22 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, Texas secures the twenty-second spot. Despite being a large and diverse state, Texas continues to make progress in LGBTQ+ acceptance and has thriving gay communities in cities like Austin and Houston.

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Utah

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4.48

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#30

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3,909

Ranked in the US

#37

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20.1%

Ranked in the US

#13

Rounding out the top thirty is Utah, with 4.48 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. While the state has a conservative reputation, there are growing LGBTQ+ communities and increased visibility, particularly in Salt Lake City.

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Vermont

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8.36

Ranked in the US

#2

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2,143

Ranked in the US

#45

% of Gay Couples Raising Children

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18.6%

Ranked in the US

#22

Vermont secures the second spot with 8.36 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. Known for its scenic landscapes and progressive policies, the state has been a trailblazer in LGBTQ+ rights and was the first to legalize same-sex marriage through legislative action.

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Virginia

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4.66

Ranked in the US

#28

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14,243

Ranked in the US

#15

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16%

Ranked in the US

#42

With 4.66 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, Virginia secures the twenty-eighth position. The state has seen significant progress in LGBTQ+ rights in recent years and offers a mix of urban and rural environments for same-sex couples.

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Washington

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7.26

Ranked in the US

#8

Number of Gay Couples

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19,003

Ranked in the US

#10

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15.8%

Ranked in the US

#46

With 7.26 same-sex couples per 1,000 households, Washington State ranks eighth. The presence of LGBTQ+-friendly cities like Seattle, combined with a long history of advocating for LGBTQ+ rights, creates a welcoming environment for the gay community.

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West Virginia

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3.78

Ranked in the US

#40

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2,848

Ranked in the US

#41

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17.8%

Ranked in the US

#28

West Virginia claims the fiftieth position, with a gay population of 3.78 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has more conservative views on LGBTQ+ issues, but there are supportive communities for same-sex couples.

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Wisconsin

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4.04

Ranked in the US

#37

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9,179

Ranked in the US

#23

% of Gay Couples Raising Children

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16.4%

Ranked in the US

#39

Wisconsin ranks forty-seventh with 4.04 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has made strides in LGBTQ+ rights, and cities like Madison have active LGBTQ+ communities and resources.

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Wyoming

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3.15

Ranked in the US

#48

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657

Ranked in the US

#50

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24.7%

Ranked in the US

#2

Wyoming claims the forty-eighth position, with a gay population of 3.15 same-sex couples per 1,000 households. The state has more conservative views on LGBTQ+ rights, but there are LGBTQ+ communities and organizations working towards greater acceptance.

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FAQs

What percentage of the population is gay ?

The exact percentage of the population that identifies as gay in the US is difficult to determine due to varying factors, but estimates suggest it is around 4.5% to 5%.

How many gay people are in the US ?

The exact number of gay people in the United States is challenging to determine accurately due to factors such as self-identification and varying survey methodologies, but estimates suggest there are millions of gay individuals residing in the country.

What state has the most gay people ?

The state with the highest number of gay people in the United States is California, which has a large and diverse LGBTQ+ population.

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