Hailey Glassman Says Marriage to Rubin Feels Unsatisfying
The Real Housewives of New York City star shared on-air that she is unsure whether she will leave her 15-year relationship.
Updated on Nov. 11, 2026 in Sex Life
On Episode 10 of The Real Housewives of New York City, Hailey Glassman said she feels deeply unsatisfied in her marriage to Rubin and is unsure whether she will stay or leave. She described their relationship as unconventional and said she needs to make a change.
Why it matters
Glassman's comments offer a candid look at the emotional strain that can build in long-term relationships when partners grow in different directions. Her remarks have drawn attention to how viewers and castmates discuss marriage and personal change on reality television.
Glassman, 40, has been with Rubin for 15 years and said she has never dated. She said she is not asking for money in a potential divorce but is unsure whether she will leave or stay.
The players
Hailey Glassman
Hailey Glassman is a cast member of The Real Housewives of New York City who has been known for her candid discussions of her personal life on the series.
Rubin
Rubin is Hailey Glassman's partner of 15 years, whom she described as having remained the same as she has grown.
Sai De Silva
Sai De Silva is a cast member of The Real Housewives of New York City and was the castmate with whom Glassman shared her feelings in Episode 10.
The details
Glassman shared her feelings with castmate Sai De Silva in Episode 10 of The Real Housewives of New York City and later clarified her comments on the show's After Show. She said she feels she has matured and taken on a parental role in the relationship, and that Rubin has stayed the same while she has changed.
Timeline
Episode 10 of the season aired on November 10, 2026, featuring Glassman's comments.
Relationship Arc
Glassman said Rubin was there for her after her relationship with Jon Gosselin, and she now describes the 15-year marriage as one in which she has outgrown the dynamic. The comments follow a long on-screen history of reality personalities discussing marital change in public.
Glassman's remarks highlight how feeling out of step with a long-term partner can surface and how people weigh whether to address it or move on. Readers navigating similar questions may find it useful to examine whether growth is happening on both sides of a relationship.
The takeaway
Feeling persistently unsatisfied in a long relationship is worth naming openly, even when the path forward is unclear. Honest conversation with a partner about changing needs can clarify whether the relationship can grow alongside you.
Further reading
Explore more on Sex Life for broader context on how couples navigate intimacy and change over time.
Source note: This article includes information reported by Bravo.
